Dating a girl with no confidence carbon dating on live things

17-Jun-2015 03:39

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It takes many women to make a man lose confidence, but only one to give it back to him.

nobody else on this planet can MAKE you feel a certain way.

We all have choices when it comes to how we deal with events in your life.i'd say YOU need to get your own confidence back, and THEN focus on finding someone.

When you feel good about you, then it will reflect on to others. Think about this.are sitting, standing, what ever, in a situation with lady/partner and you lack confidence.dont think they will notice that?

Giving a chance to someone and helping them to build self esteem is not the same thing. you can't really have someone complete you for who you are, otherwise, when the person is gone, what are you left with??

However i feel, the lack of confidence is a big turn off for women. I think you are partly right when you say that rejection causes a lack of it, but you must get past that. You know you are attractive, smart, hard working, ......you know what you are better than I do.

It makes it a vicious circle for a man who has only faced rejections all his life. It might sound corny, but try doing little daily affirmations to yourself.

Discouragement and doubt are par for the course; they will happen to you in any difficult task you undertake (and dating certainly qualifies as that! That happened to me once, with a very attractive coworker--I asked her out even though I was scared ____less, and I know she could see that.

And she said "yes." Good old-fashioned bravery still counts for something, I guess.

Giving a chance to someone and helping them to build self esteem is not the same thing. you can't really have someone complete you for who you are, otherwise, when the person is gone, what are you left with??

However i feel, the lack of confidence is a big turn off for women. I think you are partly right when you say that rejection causes a lack of it, but you must get past that. You know you are attractive, smart, hard working, ......you know what you are better than I do.

It makes it a vicious circle for a man who has only faced rejections all his life. It might sound corny, but try doing little daily affirmations to yourself.

Discouragement and doubt are par for the course; they will happen to you in any difficult task you undertake (and dating certainly qualifies as that! That happened to me once, with a very attractive coworker--I asked her out even though I was scared ____less, and I know she could see that.

And she said "yes." Good old-fashioned bravery still counts for something, I guess.

Some of the posters on this thread assert that confidence can't be given to you, and that is true. Success builds confidence, which leads to greater effort, and thence to more success. But in order to succeed, you have to try--and that means being willing to accept failure and learn from it.